{"product_id":"it-takes-one-to-tango-how-i-rescued-my-marriage-with-almost-no-help-from-my-spouse-and-how-you-can-too-1501125826-used","title":"It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage with (Almost) No Help from My Spouse-and How You Can, Too","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eISBN:\u003c\/strong\u003e 1501125826\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/strong\u003e Reilly, Winifred M.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eCondition:\u003c\/strong\u003e Used\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWith a focus on self-empowerment and resilience, this refreshing and witty relationship guide has a reassuring counterintuitive message for unhappy spouses: you only need one partner to initiate far-reaching positive change in a marriage.Conventional wisdom says that it takes two to turn a troubled marriage around and that both partners must have a shared commitment to change. So when couples cant agree on how-or whether-to make their marriage better, many give up or settle for a less-than-satisfying marriage (or think the only way out is divorce).Fortunately, there is an alternative.It Takes One to Tango is a groundbreaking guide that shows how one determined partner-acting alone-can spark lasting, significant change in a marriage, often accomplishing change that cannot be made any other way. It doesnt matter how short-fused, argumentative, or seemingly impossible your partner can be-or how long youve been stuck.Marriage and family therapist Winifred Reilly has this message for struggling partners: Take the lead. Doing so is effective-and powerful. Through Reillys own story of reclaiming her now nearly forty-year marriage, along with anecdotes from many clients shes worked with, youll learn how to:-Focus on your own behaviors and change them in ways that make you feel good about yourself and your marriage-Take a firm stand for what truly matters to you without arguing, cajoling, or resorting to threats-Identify the big picture issues at the basis of your repetitive fights-and learn how to unhook from them-Be less reactive, especially in the face of your spouses provocations-Develop the strength and stamina to be the sole agent of changeCombining psychological theory, practical advice, and personal narrative, It Takes One to Tango is a fresh and engaging guide that will empower those who choose to take a bold, proactive approach to creating a loving and lasting marriage.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Mia Karts","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":52342514745632,"sku":"USED1501125826","price":43.86,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0980\/7426\/3840\/files\/71oTnom7DHL_b26b7a81-7210-434f-b0f3-055910d1bce2.jpg?v=1789177673","url":"https:\/\/miakarts.com\/products\/it-takes-one-to-tango-how-i-rescued-my-marriage-with-almost-no-help-from-my-spouse-and-how-you-can-too-1501125826-used","provider":"Miakarts Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}