Good Morning, Destroyer of Men's Souls: A Memoir of Women, Addiction, and Love

ISBN: 0525576681

Author: Aron, Nina Renata

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A scorching memoir of a love affair with an addict, weaving personal reckoning with psychology and history to understand the nature of addiction, codependency, and our appetite for obsessive loveFerocious . . . glints with hard-won truths . . . Aron lights a path through the darkness of her past toward a better future.-Los Angeles TimesNAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY PARADEThe disease he has is addiction, Nina Renata Aron writes of her boyfriend, K. The disease I have is loving him. Their love affair is dramatic, urgent, overwhelming-an intoxicating antidote to the long, lonely days of early motherhood. Soon after they get together, K starts using again, and years of relapses and broken promises follow. Even as his addiction deepens, she stays, convinced she is the one who can get him sober. After an adolescence marred by family trauma and addiction, Nina cant help but feel responsible for those suffering around her. How can she break this pattern? If she leaves K, has she failed him?Writing in prose at once unflinching and acrobatic, Aron delivers a piercing memoir of romance and addiction, drawing on intimate anecdotes as well as academic research to crack open the long-feminized and overlooked phenomenon of codependency. She shifts between visceral, ferocious accounts of her affair with K and introspective analyses of the part she plays in his addictions, as well as defining moments in the history of codependency, from the temperance movement to the formation of Al-Anon to more recent research in the psychology of addiction. Good Morning, Destroyer of Mens Souls is a blazing, bighearted book that illuminates and adds nuance to the messy tethers between femininity, enabling, and love.Praise for Good Morning, Destroyer of Men's SoulsUnflinching . . . Aron writes in gripping prose about the thrills and dangers of her own substance use and relationship with K-their weak-kneed passion and wolfish needs, as well as her guilt-ridden enabling and savior-complex optimism.-San Francisco ChronicleIn Nina Renata Arons scorching, unvarnished memoir, an addiction story gets spun from the perspective of the helpless partner, the lover too stuck in a dangerous dynamic to find her way out.-Entertainment WeeklyA raw and eloquently unflinching memoir.-Kirkus Reviews