The Mirages of Marriage

ISBN: 0393306321

Author: Lederer, William J.

Condition: New

We believe that husband and wife in a discordant marriage can do the greater part of the healing and growing for themselves. There is no doctor or counselor who can-for any amount of money-give instant love or marital harmony. The partners involved must do the work. -William J. Lederer and Don D. Jackson, M.D. This helpful, incisive analysis of marriage in America discusses the false assumptions of modern marriage and how to make a marriage work. It is imperative to realize, the authors argue, that the marital relationship is an interlocked system in itself, not a function of individual partners. They offer techniques for appraising ones own marriage, discuss the use of counselors and the dangers of unilateral therapy, and outline the major elements of a satisfactory marriage.